July 30 - 7am-1pm: The timing belt came off. After extensive reading and computer research we figured out where the timing marks were, so we could figure out how to get everything lined up again. Then the Alternator came out and the coil packs (which I should have removed earlier *shrug*) We finally got that stubborn intake bolt off, FINALLY! When the head was unbolted, there was no dynamic, extensive damage to the gasket, but there was a spot near the 2nd cylinder which appeared to be the culprit.
Though a pressure check and head resurfacing and the like would have been the smartest route, I neither had the money, inclination or (most importantly) time, to do that. Under those circumstances, the only thing to do was clean everything, put the new gasket on and pray.
Head, with lower intake manifold still attached.
I spent the rest of the afternoon cleaning gasket residue off of the head, block, exhaust header, intake manifolds (upper and lower) and the throttle body.
With the head off, I was finally able to get to that spark plug with the plastic melted around it. turns out it wasn't as bad as I thought. When the engine overheated, at cylinder 2, it melted the plastic cover on the spark plug wire. I was able to chip out the plastic and the plug was fine, no damage. whew!
Side note: Parts are numbered and designated as if you were sitting in the driver's seat. I didn't know that. I thought it was from facing the vehicle. I've been calling left right and calling right left etc and counting bolts back wards, calling 1 4 and 4 1 ad naseum.